Tag Archives: Attitude

Why Ask More Questions?

If you looked others in the eye and asked more questions, what would happen?

 

Would you…

  • Strengthen your listening skills?
  • Learn more?
  • Be more fully in the moment?
  • More clearly understand the viewpoint of others?
  • Work more effectively with others?
  • Build bridges instead of setting fences with declarative statements?
  • Avoid some conflicts and misunderstandings?
  • Get to better solutions?
  • Build more successful partnerships?

Could you…

  • Create a space where others can make ideas their own?
  • Reinforce and grow your respect and appreciation for others?
  • Become more open to possibilities?
  • Find unexpected answers that lead to in directions you had not contemplated?
  • Amplify your appreciation, curiosity and sense of wonder?
  • Grow in humility?
  • Put yourself in a position to ask questions you didn’t know you had before?

And if you did ask more questions, do you think others might…

  • Sense your respect and appreciate you more?
  • Be more interested in working with you?
  • Recommend you to others?

What would happen to your relationships?
When would your thought processes begin to deepen?
How would your life be impacted?

Why NOT ask more questions?  Go ahead, roll the dice.  Just remember to listen carefully to the answers.

Attitude – The Secret Weapon of Time Management

Time management is as much mindset as it is skillset. Henry Ford said, “If you think you can, or think you can’t, either way you’re right.” Most of the professional train wrecks I know are certain they have no control over their time. They are perpetual victims and live in the world of self-fulfilling prophecy. Sure, they have no system whatsoever, and that’s a big part of the problem. That will be the subject of another blog post. In all the people I’ve coached through the years, there was a clear and direct relationship between attitude and effective time management.

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So let’s flip the script. Can a positive attitude be a time management tool? Yes, yes, yes! Think about this – what happens the day before you go on vacation? Amazingly, everything gets done that day. Why? Motivation! You will move heaven and earth to make sure you don’t miss that flight to paradise. You KNOW you can do this! You are so excited you become a super hero with boundless energy. This drives you to do a few things:
* You’ll be super focused on the goal.
* You’ll be very clear on what you must do and what may not really have to be done.
* You’ll identify and use all available resources.
* You’ll be ridiculously efficient in all your activity. Fast and furious with no wasted motion.

The lessons:
* Positive attitude creates energy.
* Motivation drives clarity.
* Clarity drives efficiency.
* Tasks are not necessarily static.
* It all starts with attitude.

How cool would it be if every day could be like the day before you go on vacation? Attitude. It’s the secret weapon of time management.