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Culture – The Missing Piece

The culture of an organization either creates the space for sustainable, defined success or makes it difficult, if not impossible.  A healthy culture allows the organization to tap into the knowledge, talents, experience, energy, and intellectual capital of participants.  It does not permit ego, politics, or dysfunction to get in the way.

In this context, culture can be defined as the environment that establishes norms of behavior for the people in the organization.  It involves the connection between the goals and values of the individual and those of the group.  Culture is embodied in author Seth Godin’s statement: “People like us do things like that.”

Organizational culture provides the context in which the stakeholders understand their roles and can concentrate on doing their best. Healthy cultures in community associations put boards in a position to establish desired results and provide the necessary resources to achieve them.  Focusing on those results delivers rich payoffs. Building a healthy culture yields exponentially compounded interest in terms of time, energy, progress, and community spirit.

Culture is the difference-maker, and yet, community association managers and volunteers almost never talk about culture directly.  It’s about time we did.

Three Cultures

Organizational culture tends to fall into one of three general categories:

  • Intentional Culture- Values, goals, and norms have been identified, codified in some form, and provide the basis for principled action.  People in the organization are clear on “The Why.”
  • Unintentional Culture- Values, goals and norms are left to chance.  Defining them depends on who the influential people are in an organization at a particular time.  Frequently, decisions are made and actions taken on an ad hoc basis.  Sometimes leaders focus on rules and written procedures without explaining why they matter. Other times, there is no focus at all.  Everybody works too hard at reinventing the wheel or making it up as they go.  If such a community is fortunate, things will go well riding on the backs of a few good people.
  • Actual Culture- Values, norms and goals have been identified.  There may be mission, values, and vision statements with lofty aspirations printed on glossy marketing materials and plaques on walls.  Yet, leaders and members of the organization violate those ideals on a regular basis without correction.  The inherent hypocrisy of the organization destroys morale and trust. 

Most organizations fall into the unintentional category.  Their leaders may have no concept of culture or fail to recognize the benefits of the time investment necessary to build a successful one.  They cannot see that the hard work up front will significantly decrease their time and effort in the long run.  They are so caught up in the day-to-day operation that they miss the bigger picture.

What About Community Associations?

Why, specifically, do many community associations tend to have an unintentional culture?  First, boards can be mired in tactics, too busy putting out fires and stuck in the weeds to elevate their perspective.

Second, exclusive devotion to the standard board meeting model can cause an unintended consequence. Leaders and managers are trained to follow the legal requirements for board meetings.  They correctly conduct the association’s business in accordance with open meeting requirements and the standard meeting agenda.  Well-planned and executed board meetings are highly effective in handling the day-to-day business of the association.  However, regular board meetings are horribly ill-suited to address bigger picture issues, complicated projects, and strategic planning.  These discussions will never fit into a standard board meeting agenda in the best of times.  Switch it up by scheduling some town hall or special meetings to listen to what members have to say, get ideas flowing, and deal with big picture issues.

Getting to Higher Ground

Getting out of the weeds is not easy.  Leaders and managers first need the awareness that business as usual leaves too much to chance.  Then, they must recognize that the work to build healthy organizational culture is a time investment that will pay dividends.  For some groups we’ve worked with, it took disgust borne from crashing and burning to motivate them to meaningful change.  In our next segment, we will offer a roadmap to intentional culture for community associations. 

Lighting Candles in May – Take THAT Coronavirus!

Zig Ziglar told the story of a friend of his who explained that people tend to be either “cake people” or “candle people.” A cake person sees resources as finite. They will get theirs at whatever the cost, even if it means someone else gets a smaller slice. In contrast, candle people recognize that sharing light with someone else eventually brightens up the whole room for everyone, including themselves.

During critical times, it may be tempting to fall into “cake person” mode. We might feel like our light is so low that we must protect it. We might think we have nothing left to give. And we might be mistaken. It just takes a little spark to light a candle. The challenge is seeing the opportunity, recognizing what we might have to share, and making a meaningful connection.

Finding a Way to Light Up the Room

A few months ago, we decided to find a charity to support as a company. We were looking for an organization that made a difference for those in need here in our local area. When we found DC Central Kitchen, we knew that we had found our match.

We’ve always said that we have no interest in short term profits by giving clients “fish.” If someone does not see our fees as an investment, then they are not our client. We want to teach clients how to fish. They get the best value over time, and it frees us up to serve as many people as possible- thus fulfilling our mission. When we learned about DC Central Kitchen, we realized we found an organization that applied a similar mindset to serve a far more important need. From day one, they refused to just give people both literal and figurative fish. The organization was borne out of frustrations with waste, unfilled community needs, and the status quo. They turned a brilliant and innovative idea into reality. And, they make great use of every resource they cultivate. We wish we could be as cool as they are when we grow up!

Here is how they describe their work: “DCCK is an iconic nonprofit and social enterprise that combats hunger and poverty through job training and job creation. The organization provides hands-on culinary job training for individuals facing high barriers to employment while creating living wage jobs and bringing nutritious, dignified food where it is most needed. DCCK’s social ventures include serving scratch-cooked, farm-to-school meals in DC schools, delivering fresh, affordable produce to corner stores in neighborhoods without supermarkets, and operating a fast-casual cafe.” Wow!

The Campaign

DCCK is stepping up right now to help some of the most vulnerable folks in the DMV area and needs all the help it can get. They do amazing things, making a little go a long way. To learn more about their outstanding work during the pandemic, click HERE.

For our next phase of giving, we have decided to do a campaign in May. Association Bridge will match your contributions to DC Central Kitchen up to $2,000. If you would like to join us and share a little of your light, just click HERE. Thank you!

Time Management Tip #2 – Spend or Invest?

After you’ve lived enough life, you realize that money is not your most valuable currency.  Your most valuable currencies are time and love.  Use endgame thinking and the logic makes the case.  If you run out of money but have time, you can likely get more money.  But if you run out of time, you likely won’t care too much about the money.  And while money certainly has value, it can’t buy love.

When it comes to money, we can choose to spend it with no long term return or invest it and earn interest.  The same can be said of time.  One of the biggest mistakes we can make is confusing a time investment for a time expense.  Interestingly, the reasons for doing so are very similar to the reasons why many people fail to invest.  It’s not logic that gets us, it’s emotion.

Opportunity Cost

Here’s how it works in business.  You have a meeting with someone.  You agree on next steps.  Your schedule is tight.  You know you should take three minutes to send a confirmation email. But you’ve worked with this person before and you are feeling the rush of the day.  I don’t have time.  Unfortunately, things go awry.  A few details get lost, and the whole thing blows up.  Now you are stuck with an emergency and have to take 30 minutes or maybe three hours fixing things.  Why? All because you saw those three minutes as a time expense.  Not a good time management strategy.  You could have gotten back far more than those three minutes had you invested up front.

Planning is always a time investment.  A failure to invest that time up front will result in an expense on the back end.

Opportunities Everywhere

Reaping the benefits of compounded interest doesn’t require huge investments.  Many small ones will do the trick as well.  Besides confirming emails and proper preparation, examples of time investments can include:

  • Setting an email aside for a little while to review and edit after you’ve calmed down
  • Having someone else review your work for accuracy and effectiveness
  • Checking with someone before a project due date to see if they are on track
  • Asking one more question before forming an answer
  • Taking a moment to look someone in the eye and encouraging them
  • Taking a moment to express praise for a job well done
  • Taking a break to rest and reset

With the speed of life and business, it’s easy to miss opportunities.  In the moment, it’s easy to lose focus and allow your emotion to fool you into thinking you don’t have time.  But once you start to practice time investments, little by little you start to see the interest you’ve earned in time. 

Hard to Measure is Still Real

The interest on time investments may not be immediately detectable.  It may come in the form of increased efficiency.  You may realize that you are dealing with fewer emergencies and getting more done.  Sometimes earned interest pays back in something even harder to measure.  When you add value to time in the way you work with others, you are partnering with them for their success.  Your relationships deepen.  Trust and appreciation grow.  And sometimes as a byproduct, you get the bonus of time.  Others are more motivated to look out for you, to lend you a hand and to help you get things done.   You show them a little love and they are more likely to reciprocate.

Real Life

The best part of all this is that it applies not just to business but in all areas of life.  Investing time in important things always pays back one way or another, some time or another.  The key is to be clear on what is most important and scheduling actions that work towards those things.

It’s not easy.  Never forget that urgencies are rarely important, and the important things are rarely urgent.   In our immediate gratification culture and business atmosphere, everything seems urgent.  Priority and context have gotten lost.  Important things tend not to call your cell, email you, or text you.   But unless you prioritize the important things, making them urgent, unimportant urgencies will take over and consume your waking hours.  

Figure out what’s important.  Figure out what you love.  Invest your time.  Do the important things, do what you love, and preferably do it with those whom you love.  That is the trifecta of life.  When you invest your time wisely, you learn one of the core truths of this thing we call “time management.”  It is not time that we manage, it is the value we add to our time.

Dear Boards: Suck It Up and Be Transparent

James Dyson developed over 5,000 prototype designs for his revolutionary vacuum cleaner between 1979 and 1984. Nobody cared until 1983. An Italian appliance maker agreed to sell them by mail order. It was not exactly a success; only about 500 units were sold that year.

But Dyson was undeterred. He never forgot his unhappy experience with a typical vacuum in 1974, when he noticed it seemed to lose suction easily and required a lot of maintenance to maintain optimal performance. He knew there had to be a better way. He was sure his “cyclonic separation” technology was the answer.

Who Wants to See Dirt?

One of the key features of the vacuum was its clear plastic dirt collector. Market research at the time said people would hate it. But Dyson sensed that people would want to see the results of the vacuum’s performance, no matter how ugly it might be. So in 1991 he launched Dyson Appliances Unlimited. Was he right? Today Dyson is a multi-billion pound (British) company employing over 8,500 people. But you don’t need to know statistics to see his impact. Take a look at the appliance shelf at your local department store or Amazon page. How many competitors copied him?

Historically, vacuum cleaners trapped dirt in a hidden bag that was removed and thrown away. The clear dirt collector went against the grain of conventional wisdom at the time. In his ebook Who Do You Want Your Customers to Become?, Michael Schrage quoted Dyson: “The interesting thing is that when I did this, all of our competitors just fell about the floor laughing; they were actually delighted that I’d been so stupid. And the retailers wouldn’t have it . . . We went into the stores, and our vacuum has all this (expletive deleted) in it. The retailers are absolutely hostile. They say, ‘No, no, no, it’s a complete mistake—make it smoked or tinted or something.’ But I persisted, because I found it really fascinating that you could see exactly what was happening; you could actually see the nature and texture and type of dirt you’ve picked up.”

Schrage concluded, “While Dyson’s transparency defied the industry’s conventional wisdom, customers knew they could see with their own eyes how well their innovative technology worked. Dyson offered a simple, easy, and inexpensive user experience that invited customer confidence….Transparency creates trust. Dyson’s contrarian innovation was an investment in trust. Dyson empowered his customers to come to their own real-time conclusions about his product’s performance. “

What’s This Got to Do with Community Association Governance?

Too many boards of directors of community association are nervous. Nervous about contention. Nervous about bad PR. Nervous about looking unprepared. Nervous about being wrong. Reflexively, they retreat into secrecy, even when state or local statutes require open meetings.

I get it. People can be tough. Most communities have hard cases living in them. I remember Elvira, a unit owner in a particularly contentious condominium I once managed. She was the Board’s harshest critic, never missing an opportunity to call out any and every imperfection. When I asked her why she didn’t step up and serve on the Board, it became clear she didn’t want to be accountable. She just enjoyed holding others accountable.

I also remember my first condo management job. I was a contracted, interim building manager for a small and elite condominium in Washington DC. I went to work every day with a knot in my stomach, certain I would blow the building up. At the end of my tenure, the whole community threw me a going away party. It was amazing. I cornered one of the board members and said, “I don’t understand. This was my first management job. I made plenty of mistakes. Why were you so happy with me?” I’ll never forget the answer.

“Tom, you told us about every little thing that went wrong. We knew if anything really bad happened you would be honest about it. You have no idea how valuable that was to us to have a manager we could trust.”

“Transparency creates trust”
– Michael Schrage

Humility and openness are invaluable. They set a tone and can change the game. My mentor Arthur Dubin, President of Zalco Realty, and I still recall a president of a condominium we helped turn around back in the day. The condominium had been the victim of paralysis by analysis. This was due in no small part to egos that got in the way of seeing reality and being responsible for decisions that might not work. A brilliant oncologist, this president was always willing to admit when he didn’t understand something. He asked the questions others were afraid to. His standard line was, “talk to me like I’m 5 years old.” The board became more comfortable discussing matters openly and sharing information on topics in progress with owners. All their dirt was in the open. Nobody got sued, the community came together, and stuff got done. More than 20 years later, Arthur and I still reminisce about “Dr. Bob” moments every so often.

Consumers pay good money for a vacuum and want to see the results. They trust their money was well spent, even if what they see might be a bit distasteful. They know the technology works. Seeing the results allows them to draw their own conclusions. Community members pay their fees. They want to have confidence that the organization they are funding is working well. They want to have confidence in the process, even when the news is a less than pleasant. Seeing the process unfold allows members to buy in for themselves.

So your gut reaction may be to stay “safe” in the shadows. This is a fear-based decision. You already know those don’t work out too well (FEAR = False Evidence Appearing Real). You may make assumptions about how members will react to seeing the dirt. And it’s true that in our litigious society there are reasons to be discrete. But knowledge gaps will be filled by the rumor mill. The Law of Omitted Data (i.e. if a percentage of information is omitted or missing, bad data will spread at an exponential rate over time) runs amok. This creates a vicious cycle of distrust, secrecy and dysfunction.

So yes, it can be tough ESPECIALLY in challenging times and with bad news. Take a deep breath and be as open as circumstances permit. Change the game and begin to turn vicious cycles into success cycles. This is not theory. It works. Give it a shot – suck it up and be transparent. When the results start to flow you’ll be glad you did.

Magic Beans#1 – Frame of Reference

Sometimes the right words at the right time are like magic beans. Seemingly intractable positions soften, conflicts are resolved, and things get done. I’ve stumbled across a few during my career. This blog is the first in a series of sharing communication approaches that have worked for me. I hope they help you.

Many years ago I was called upon to take over a developer-controlled association. Diane, the community manager, was at her wit’s end. She found the developer to be dismissive and dishonest. It became clear that a change in assignment was required to get things on track and I became the manager. One of the hot issues involved considerable damage to an overhead garage door. Repairs were completed to the tune of a few thousand dollars. But it was a sticky situation. Several unit owners knew that developer personnel hit the door with their vehicle. Elliot, the developer representative, had been trying to get Diane to file a claim under the condominium’s master policy. But Diane was a particularly principled manager. She refused to file the claim, insisting that the repairs were the developer’s responsibility. The more she protested filing the claim, the more he insisted she file it.

Sure enough, by the end of our first meeting, Elliot tells me, “Tommy, we’ve got to get that insurance claim filed. I don’t know what that woman’s problem was.” I let him know I had a lot on my plate, but would get back to him. (I’ll admit it…while the statement was 100% true, I was buying time). In the ensuing weeks, I observed Elliot closely as we worked together. It was clear he enjoyed doing business in a “guy’s club” manner. I also noticed that he was very religious. He observed all the holy days. But the application of ethical principles behind religious practice? Not so much. The reasons why he and Diane were oil and water became crystal clear. In addition to the gender issue, her frame of reference was principle-based. She saw law as a function of ethics. Elliot seemed to be legalistically-based. He saw ethics as a function of law (i.e. if you don’t get into trouble, it’s not unethical). There was no way Elliot would ever hear Diane’s message. So I took a different tack.

Elliot: “Tommy, have you filed that claim yet?”

Me: “I’ve been looking at that and wanted to talk to you when you had a moment. If we file that claim, I wanted to make sure you knew how it might play out.”

Elliot: “Whaddaya mean?”

Me: “Well, you know you are a couple of months before turning over control of the board to the unit owners.”

Elliot: “Yeah, so what?”

Me: “You know the folks who will most likely to run will be the ones that trust you the least. I mean no disrespect, but you know not everybody’s a big fan…”

Elliot (shrugs, nods): “Yeah, there are always troublemakers.”

Me: “In my experience, folks like that get on the board and one of the first things they do is rake through the financials. They are looking for anything suspicious. And if we file the claim and that happens, guess what they’ll see?”

Elliot: “What’s that, Tommy? “

Me: “An insurance deductible expense. And they’ll ask questions and figure out pretty quickly that their fees paid for damage done by your guys. So I really only have one question for you – is your lawyer on retainer or do you pay him by the hour.”

Elliot (pregnant pause…): “Hmm…so you think I might get in a little trouble, Tommy?”

Me: “You might.”

Elliot: “OK, no problem, I’ll write a check to reimburse the condo.”

Me: “Good idea. I’ll show it as a credit on the financials so everyone will know you took care of it.”

Elliot: “Thanks a lot Tommy. I really appreciate that.”

Granted, it was difficult to do business with the gentlemen. I felt like washing my hands after every handshake. If my tactic didn’t work, I had a Plan B in my pocket. I would have advised Elliot that if I filed the claim, I would have had to recommend the insurer pursue subrogation against him. If that meant we got fired, so be it. But none of that proved necessary. We found a mutual frame of reference, he did the right thing and the unit owners were well-served.

THE TAKEAWAYS

• If you don’t know the client’s frame of reference, it is much more difficult to be effective.

• Observe closely, find cues to identify the client’s frame of reference.

• When possible, communicate issues with the client’s frame of reference in mind.

 

Big Ideas in Time Management – Time Investment vs. Time Expense

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This is a huge concept. Too many managers think they don’t have time to do things that save time in the long run. So…..if you don’t have time to do it right, when will you have time to do it again? How many hours will you spend later because you didn’t take 15 minutes to nip it in the bud and follow something all the way through? Think long term, imagine the repercussions of not doing that thing you know in the pit of your stomache you really should do. Ignore the electrons buzzing around in your noggin that are telling you you’re behind schedule and need to skip that last detail. You may be behind schedule because of that little thing you didn’t do last week that’s biting you in the butt and you’re scrambling to reconstruct the pieces. So go ahead, start turning those failure cycles into success cycles. Invest your time now. You’ll save more of it later.

I Don’t Know…Period?

Passive aggression gets a lot of play when we talk about human behavior these days.  It’s unhealthy.  It’s all too common.  That behavior in a business setting is certainly harmful, but not as pervasive as something far more insidious….passive dependency.

Uh oh

Here’s a test – how many times do you hear the words “I don’t know.”  This phase is perfectly OK if its followed by a comma and a plan of action.  When it’s the whole sentence followed by a period, you have a problem.

How about “Well, I was waiting for…”  If people are always waiting for someone else to tell them what to do, you have a problem.  If everything flows up the organizational chart, action is delayed, decisions get bottlenecked, and customers are poorly served.  And may worse yet, nobody learns anything, you have an organization of unhappy robots, and you are destined to repeat this unhappy history.  Blechhh. Ptoooey!  Or, as Bill the Cat would have said “Ack!”

Kill the cancer

Passive dependency demotivates people and eats away at the insides of organizations.  Treat it aggressively like the cancer that it is.

It’s not you, it’s me. No really, it might be me

Organizations rife with passive dependency have papa or momma bears at the top.  Be careful that’s not you.  Resist the control freak trap.  Resist the urge to just answer questions for the sake of expediency.

Make it right

Try answering questions with “What do YOU think?” and keep asking questions until the answer comes out of someone else’s mouth.  Go ahead, invest in your people. Put others in a position to learn, to think, to use their best judgment, to act, to be responsible.  Then trust, even when you know stuff will go wrong from time to time.  Let them screw it up from time to time and talk about lessons learned along the way.  I know, you don’t think you have time.  Do it anyway.  You’ll save a ton of time in the long run.  It’s an investment you’ll be glad you made.